As a mother of two, one of the things that’s become the most apparent in my life, is that not all friendships are meant to last forever. I don’t think thats necessarily a bad thing either. I think we are all destined to change.
We change everything, from our choice in clothes to our taste in music. Change is all we can really be sure of.
Its a constant theme in all our lives. Whether for the better or not, is really up to us.
I’m one of those people who believes in fate. I believe in fate due to several major events in my life, up until this point. So many close calls will do that to a person. Its obvious, if I’m still here there’s a reason.
I think everyone whether they think so or not, is on their own chosen path. Sometimes we deviate from those paths, but fate can intervene at times to push us back on track.
This has brought me to my latest epiphany; we are not meant to carry every friendship we have ever made, with us forever.
Looking back I have noticed, there are times in my life when I was closer to some people, then others. Sometimes it felt like It was meant to be, and then it wasn’t.
Other times I think we meet up with people who are at the same crossroads as us, and we unconsciously recognize this.
Its such a human quality to think everything lasts forever.The truth is nothing ever stays the same. Life moves in all different directions at once.
I have had friends I have known most of my life, who I no longer speak to. We have drifted apart, and that’s okay. I guess some people, are only supposed to be in your life for a little while.
I think we were there for each other because we were meant to be. Maybe not forever, but for that time in that place. When you connect like that with some people, you carry it with you for the rest of your life.
Even when they are no longer a major part of your life, the memories stay.
Thinking back on it now, every person who has truly touched my life, has changed it.
Some I connected with in some of the worst times of my life. Drawn together by similar human experiences, and finding someone in whom we could relate.
Some I will never see again. Some I only speak to on occasion, but its always like no time has passed. Some I haven’t spoken to in years. Some I hang out with often.
With all of these friends I truly felt they appreciated me for me. Its a rare thing when you feel comfortable enough to be yourself completely.
Every person who has touched my life in one way or another, have helped to make me who I am today.
The saying friends come and go is so true. For me though, I am grateful for both the ones that came and the ones that went…